Are you sure about that? Involuntary celibacy actually predates all of these ideologies. The phenomenon was identified in the late 90s, by a female researcher no less.
It seems to me these ideologies are just an attempt to make sense of the suffering.
And they impact you even if you are "married with children"
One of my son's friends fell under the spell of an incel preacher who goes as "Wheat Waffles". He refuses to hang out with my son because my son is taller and more handsome and thus inevitably "mogs" him.
Waffles is running a pernicious cult complete with a catechism and what I saw looks a lot like Scientology disconnection.
It seems to me these ideologies are just an attempt to make sense of the suffering.